What Intentions Have You Set for 2025?

Most people set intentions at the beginning of the year to improve their lives physically, emotionally, mentally, financially, and spiritually. Unfortunately, many people never implement their intentions. Changing your life takes time, effort, and dedication.

This past year, I had several lessons about honoring my Divine authentic truth. Through these challenges, I recognized that even though I have made lots of progress; I was still bumping up against agreeing to do things I did not want to do or were not for my highest good. Each time I would do something that was not in my best interest, I would feel physically ill or even create something like a bad fall to get my attention. I denied my authentic self the freedom of saying ‘no’ to things I intuitively knew were not good for me.

It is a common struggle for people to always honor their authentic selves. It can be scary to reveal your true self to others. I knew I was different for most of my life and would act accordingly. However, when I was younger, my inner critic would speak up and question why I was not like everyone else. Sometimes, I would give in to my inner critic and compromise my authentic self to fit in with other people’s views.

After I processed the fear of letting the world know about the deepest parts of my authentic spiritual life with the revelations I shared in my teaching memoir, I have not looked back. Since the release of the book, I have felt entirely transparent. It feels fantastic not to worry about what others think of me.

Last night, I found a box that I had not unpacked. Inside was a sweet list made by my son when he was 28-years-old, sharing what he loved about me. I don’t know about you, but as a parent, I never knew what he would remember or even choose for himself as an adult.

When I read his list, tears streamed down my face. His recognition and appreciation of so many of my authentic traits surprised me. I thought, “Wow. I had a much bigger impact on him than I thought.” Seeing all the important things to him as a child and an adult filled me with much love and gratitude.

I encourage you to make a vow to be more authentic and share your beautiful truth with the world.

My Son’s List of What He Loves About Me

• I love your outlook on life.

• I would love it if we could travel out of the country soon.

• You remind me of lavender and sage.

• If you want to, you can easily start over again at the destination of your choice.

• I love hearing about your spiritual journeys.

• Nobody sees things from a unique perspective like you do.

• You inspire me to enjoy the smaller things in life.

• I love having fun and spending time with you.

• I am in awe of your overcoming and perceiving attitude in life.

• You are great at meeting and striking up conversations with new people ALL the time.

• I love hearing about your next adventure or project.

• It makes my heart sing when you call me “your son that chose you.”

• Your taste and style of music is cool.

• You have the prettiest eyes!

• I like your strong mindset and personality.

• One of my favorite memories is the time we went to Mexico on the sleeper train.

• You’ve taught me the gift of fun and how to overcome shyness.

• You look and live a life so much younger than your age.

• I am happy I inherited your outgoing personality and your winning smile.

• It is so fun to go on adventures with you.

• I love planning staycation days with you.

• One of my favorite things is the sound of your voice when you are happy and enjoying life.

• You always find the humor and laughter in life.

• I treasure your encouragement to try new things and follow my dreams.

• I would feel lost without your optimism.

• Your ability to see a bigger, optimistic picture always amazes me.

• Thanks for sharing your guidance with me.

• You definitely win the “Coolest Mom of the Year” award.

• I wish I had known you when you were my age.

• I love how you are in tune with the messages of the Universe.

• I hope to be as spiritually sound as you are someday.

• “Spiritual” is the word I’d use to describe you if I could only use one word.

  
  

Wow! To be seen, heard, and understood by this amazing being I gave birth to 38 years ago is such a gift and a wonderful reminder to stay true to my authentic self.

It is a special gift to experience how people truly see you. When I read over my son's words, I was filled and surrounded with so much love. I encourage you to try this out with a friend or family member. You can both share what you love about each other. It would also make a great birthday gift. You don't have to make your list as long as my son's list -- even just sharing a few thoughts about what you think makes the person unique and special would be appreciated.

Like most families, our relationship has had its share of challenging ups and downs. Thank goodness my son always eventually got grounded and centered and showed up as the sweet and caring son who had waited until I was ready to have him come to Earth to be my son.

I know many people are estranged from their children. I want you to know there is always the possibility of reconcilation and connection. Be patient and shine the light.

The United States is facing a huge change on January 20, 2025. Hopefully, most of you used the time after the U.S. election to de-stress and find your balance. For those not happy with the election results, to navigate these next four years, we must remain present and mindful of everything. We may need more discretion on who sees our true selves.

May you enjoy the last few days of freedom as we know it before the new U.S. President takes office. I remind you that no matter how dark things get, the Light will ultimately prevail.

Please let me know if you would like help to adjust to the new U.S. administration or need an intuitive shamanic energy healing or a life coach session. I am here for you.

Peace & Blessings,

Chloe

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